I Owe it to Mom on Diversity and Culture
I want to dedicate
this blog post to my Mom. Culture from her perspective was a living thing. She saw
that culture and diversity meant embracing the family and heritage that God had
surrounded you with; from the sounds and rhythms, the dress, food, love , worship; to her
culture encompassed all and so much more. Diversity for her meant love of all
persons from every background. She had
many friends from varying ages and ethnicities. She also befriended and embraced
individuals that had physical and mental disabilities. She lived well, and
loved well and would have been 73 years old today. She was the first one to
love me and told this little brown
girl that she was “her doll baby”.
I Happy Birthday
Lillie!
Hi Sheila,
ReplyDeleteWe owe it all to our parents for making us what we are today!! They deserve it. It was their values, their principles, their beliefs that they instilled in us right from our very young days that has shaped our lives, our thoughts and our perceptions. All children experience some degree of cultural discontinuity. But I believe, the gap between the home culture and culture of the group depends on the relationship that they share with their parents. I too had my share of cultural discontinuity when it came to coloring hair or wearing ornaments (the conservative Christian group that I belong to does not encourage wearing ornaments). But my respect for my parent’s values and traditions has helped me continue in their beliefs and not be an outsider in my own community.