EDUC 6165-2

This blog will take on a new dimension as I investigate and share what happens in a variety of child development areas in the field. My understanding of child development, as well as yours, will expand and deepen as personal experiences are compared to what is discovered through understanding diversity and identity. Newly acquired knowledge with information about child development from learning about this issue will add so much to “flavor” my own prior knowledge, as do new spices in food. This journey this should be exciting!

Saturday, November 24, 2012

Microaggression; To be Aware of it is to be Rid of it!

Add Insult to Injury




My eldest daughter is entering a fantastic time in her life! She has recently become engaged and is in the midst of planning for the big event …. Her wedding day!
   
She said "Yes!"
   

 My daughter Autumn and her longtime best friends since kindergarten,  Jackie and Anik (A-neek), were attending a bridal show.  Take note that my daughter is a beautiful, plus size girl and her friends are pretty, petite girls.

Jackie, Autumn, Anik
 
 The girls had stopped to look at the wares of a bridal vender. Anik was standing to the side as Autumn was leafing through the information that was on the table. The gentleman manning the booth looked in Anik’s direction and said “so, you must be the bride!” Autumn, looking the man in the eye and matter-of-factly said “no, I am the bride sir” she laid the materials she had picked up back down on the table and she and Anik walked away. To say the least, Autumn was insulted especially since she was the one actually looking at the materials on that table.

This man did not intend to cause harm but the microaggression in this instance was based on a physical appearance. The microinvalidation committed in this scenario, implied that brides are slim; big girls do not get proposed to because they do not fit the image of the blushing bride. My daughter is not at all sensitive about her weight she is dealing with her  situation to get it  down before the wedding date. It was just what was implied by this man. He did indeed lose a potental client that day!

We must be cognizant of the stereotypes of people and cultures we may have in our minds. We cannot make assumptions by the way a person looks that they are or will behave in a certain way. The assignment of observations for microaggression has forever put me on alert to watch my comments when speaking to others also to even let others know of the hurts and mindless insults we can inflict towards people due to our own biases we are unaware of.

 

Saturday, November 17, 2012

Perspectives on Diversity and Culture


 I Owe it to Mom on Diversity and Culture


 

 I want to dedicate this blog post to my Mom. Culture from her perspective was a living thing. She saw that culture and diversity meant embracing the family and heritage that God had surrounded you with; from the sounds and rhythms,  the dress, food, love , worship; to her culture encompassed all and so much more. Diversity for her meant love of all persons from every background.  She had many friends from varying ages and ethnicities. She also befriended and embraced individuals that had physical and mental disabilities. She lived well, and loved well and would have been 73 years old today. She was the first one to love me and told this little brown girl that she was “her doll baby”.

I Happy Birthday Lillie!

Of course in many ways, my mother’s perspective on diversity and culture affected and influenced me.  I find that I am not afraid or repelled by cultures that are different from mine.  I am curious and find myself searching out the culture in a way to become familiar with it. I am not afraid to ask questions of one’s culture, and I think that if persons would show curiosity rather than rage, fear or mistrust what a better world we would have!

Saturday, November 10, 2012

Looking at Family Culture


My Family Culture
In the event a catastrophic event would cause me and my family to be transported to another land, the items I would take in order to preserve family memories traditions and culture would be 1. Books 2. Photos, and 3. Sacred items such as small wall hanging or a wind chime.

The meaning of the books would be the focus that we as a family put on treasuring education. The purpose for the photos show and tell a story of the family heritage spanning several generations. The sacred items would represent the personal items that belonged to loved ones that were influential in our lives and have since passed on. When we see those items or ‘hear’ those items it invokes memories of the loved one. Right now I have wind chimes that belong to my departed mother hanging at my patio! This helps me feel that she is near me.

Now in the event we had to give up all items except for one, the item I would decide to keep would be the family photos. The story of how we are as a family, the memories and how we worship would all be told in the photo album.

I learned from this exercise of the things I hold dear and precious and hope to pass these things onto my children and grandchildren. Family is important! Preserving of ones heritage is very important!

Saturday, November 3, 2012

Perspectives in Diversity and Equity








Hey All!

I bring greetings to all in the EDUC 6164-6 course in Diversity! I am excited to learn new things and how to open up the understanding of children and other colleagues to diversity and all that we will learn that comes with it.

Let’s lend support, learn and grow from each others’ input.

 

 



Sheila Lee